6. 3 Difficult 4s' for an Uncomplicated Life !

In my short period of life , I have explored very special 3 things that are extremely hard to do , unless we learn and practice the art of doing it. Let me call these  'The three difficult  4s' because , believe me friend , it's so easy to explain, but so killing when you practice .


The three difficult  4s' for an uncomplicated life !

1. FORGIVE

Things happen. And some happenings might hurt. Some wounds might be severe. and some are not.

If someone hurts you , and says 'I'm Sorry' (sometimes so easily) , yes you can blindly say 'Its OK, forget it' . But when you don't mean it from your heart, you might know how heavy it is , to forget the incident. The mistake keeps bothering your memory, disturbs the day all along, and keeps nodding the head saying , 'Why did you say its OK, its NOT OK '


Have we really forgiven them? have we really given up the mistake and pain? I don't think so. The more you hold , the more you suffer.Instead , Why should you forgive , when you really cant? why don't you forgive from the bottom of your heart? and  Can't we request a little more time from the culprit (as we assume) before you namely  say 'Its OK'. Well friend, this is what I really feel.

Forgive fully , When you can  !

2.  FORGET

 Yes , Sometimes its easy to forgive. But never so easy to forget that you suffered. Even more difficult to forget that you forgave and the chapter was closed. Keeping it in your memory (in IT its called RAM) and refreshing the experience , doesn't it mean you haven't fully forgiven?

let it go buddy , let it bury in the past. let things flow, from wherever it started, let it flow to the end it desires. let the little stream of water be an invisible portion of the ocean. let it go. be that feather in the wind.

lets forget , I bet you feel lighter and softer, I bet you feel proud about the 'noble me' !

3. FORBID

The most difficult FOR..... , is it let you be the guard dog of you. let you decide what you should do, not your emotions.

If you emotions play fool with you, you will be a slave of your emotions.  Emotions can easily overrule your life. But if you are the one to decide , whether you make the same mistake or not , sure you choose , 'Not again' !

Forbid your emotions to do it again. Remind your guard dog , (That is you) to take care of the line of thoughts. Pick and release the safest , while the vulnerable ones labeled as 'defects' and rejected.

Never so easy , as we say , but worth it to try how it corrects your life.

Why not , Forbid the excessive outflow of emotions and avoid repetitive mistakes ?

Isn't it less complicated with the
The 3 difficult  4s' for an uncomplicated life?

-FORGIVE- The Sources of Mistakes-

-FORGET- The Traces of Mistakes-

-FORBID- The Causes of Mistakes-