Thursday, September 20, 2012

9. Shall we dance ?

When I was a little girl, I seriously dreamed something really really unusual, which is to become a journalist! A  lady who speaks on Radio, goes on those press conferences. May be as a kid seeing TV Newscast I used to dream  a woman who could talk and inspire others.

Well,  I couldn't be a journalist , nor someone called a 'giant personality'. I ended up struggling with numbers, calculus , organic chemistry and mechanics! and finally management as well!

And most amazingly, would you believe it was nightmare to become a teacher . All I wanted was ANY job but not a teacher.

Life changes in such a surprising way , life moves where we don't want to end up at. 

Well this is how I used to think about me and my life , when it kept going in to chemistry , IT , Management and Teaching! yea, I spent few years asking why? why ? why? and why? Why me always been chosen to be whom I don't want to ?

After few years , the organs called my brain and my heart , realized the value of being united. Being an integrated element of wisdom. It (Wisdom) knocked my head asking , did all these expectations not came true, ended you in utter failure?

I started thinking again...

Well Shah Rukh Khan had a zoology degree and ended up in Bollywood. Steve Jobs - a college drop out, ended up in making Computers and software.

Does our degree and life passion need alignment always . If it was yes for you, well you are a lucky one! But...

Is a degree , just end of the rest of the future and your life passions? Being a science graduate , should you always be a Scientist? Being an IT Degree holder, should you always be a software engineer ?

As per my view,  its time to pause this traditional Degree> Job> Family> Die Life Chain. You must have been dreaming to model. Why think your  Bsc. in Chemistry a barrier to it ? why think you need to graduate in Modelling to enter in to the profession? All are Myths! As long as you have passion and patience towards whom you dream to be, you need not worry. You are NEVER late !!!!

Well... You learn one thing , you use it for career , earn from a different job , and WHY NOT LIVE ENTIRELY YOUR DREAM LIFE?????. Why you put a full stop for what you are really hunting for? why not let your passion or dream be your part time work?

Don't you think that your career , your job, your education are 'relief factors' to freely concentrate in your life opportunities? I do always think so. I shouldn't have been blogging here , roaming for book shopping if I weren't really earning enough. As I have my education, its a relief I job and earn. Thinking like that , made me love my education and career a lot. I am always grateful that I have time to enjoy my life as I don't need to work like a laborer all day !

Well, what about someone keep blaming to the rest of the world for forcing ? for forcing things that didn't help your dream?

But Tell me did your complain work? Sitting and regretting for not graduating in your dream field , will did make some difference?

I learned to think differently. I learned to accept and be blessed for who I am today. I learned to remember what I gained by chemistry although I don't even remember the chemical formula for benzene, moreover IT, Management and teaching ..Then it really clicked me, my job and my education ( something i initially didn't fall in love) has made me a matured woman with versatile thinking. And most of all, my destiny today has turned me  in to a woman who loves her job , loves the long way she came up to now, and a woman who believe there's more and more room  now to hunt the dreams she used to have.

Now I am more stable and matured to chase behind my dreams !! Don't I ??

I learned Chemistry , I pampered my fed up head with IT , I earn from Teaching, and grew in to master Management ..  And I LIVE for my dream with a happier and stable mind today!!! Howzat ??? ;-)

When it is RAINING , and when you don't like it , the silver-lights on the sky  seem like A THUNDER of danger to your sight ! 
when it is RAINING , and when you look at it as a SHOWER OF JOY , you would start counting seconds for the silver dashes , and the climax would be A DANCE IN THE RAIN ! 


  1. Superb... Keep up the good work....

  2. Well, I opened my mouth to say now it's too late when I saw you say that YOU ARE NEVER LATE. This is inspiring. I always wanted to ask you if you were a teacher. Well my wife and I both are. So are you. Nice to know.

    And I want you to read what I once said about the same subject, well almost.

    Some Guys Have All The Luck.

    henryblogwalker (මට භිතෙන හැටි) the Dude (HeyDude)

    1. wooo.... wwwww.... i read ur post and really amazing...
      your writes are so interesting. now am here starting to read them again :)
      and expecting to see the dude and teacher wify soon :)
      cheers !

  3. We all have dreams Dil, but one snag in having a dream is that you might not be able to realize what your dreams are...and in addition the dreams would change periodically...well that's exactly was my predicament during early days of my life....To be precise I didn't had a life was just like a rudderless ship floating at the mercy of winds & waves , All I wanted was to relax , enjoy the nature, read everything I could get my hands on and......mmm....that's all....heh, heh, think I am a bit eccentric?...if your response is affirmative most probably you are right...heh, heh..... And do you know Dil, what I became in life is purely & merely by sheer chance.

    In retrospect may be I should have gone into another field as my profession, some thing to do with Philosophy or Archaeology ....two of my favourite subjects ...But also in retrospect I reckon it's much better as things currently are..because to indulge in your favourite past times foremost a sound and secure economic base must be established....

    Nicely written Dil, You are getting better and better ...Like Sunlight as they were repeating ad nauseam in that ad. Heh, heh,

    1. Thanks so much ravi ayiye. you are always helpful and encouraging me.
      and your comment is most of the time more valuable than even my post. honestly....
      thank you....

  4. Your way of thinking is quietly different than others.Every one has a dream & looking forward to reach that target as an aim. But, i really love this point

    "You learn one thing , you use it for career , earn from a different job , and WHY NOT LIVE ENTIRELY YOUR DREAM LIFE?????. Why you put a full stop for what you are really hunting for? why not let your passion or dream be your part time work?"

    actually my point of view it's not ease to accept, but it would be wonderful if we can. Nicely made your readers to think in a different way to accept & love their career what ever they hold, with pleasure.

    1. thanks so much reeza. am so glad you read all my posts... thanks again....

  5. Nice to read a one so philosophical from a young hand.(think that u are within the range of 20-30)It is very commendable to understand and follow your own advice. Wish u all the best!

    1. Thank you blue lotus ! yeas im about to reach 29 :) not so young though :D
      \Thank you so much for the valuable comment !

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